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I'm a dessert enabler & skincare addict. we'll eat the good stuff & push through the rough stuff

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Let’s Be Clear

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Instagram – Hiding Likes, Algorithm Changes, and Cyberbullying

Instagram – Hiding Likes, Algorithm Changes, and Cyberbullying

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Thank You, Next

Thank You, Next

My mini’s 24th birthday in SF… issa #photodump

My mini’s 24th birthday in SF… issa #photodump

Corrine will probably ask me to take this down but I don’t care bc I’m the boss

I stole her clothes, snuggled a stuffed animal named Miffy, took her shopping and took her shoes. Aren’t moms fun?!

#motherdaughter #birthday #mybabygirl #sanfrancisco #sf #coolmom #thisis40

Where my fellow 80’s babies at! Long socks and l

Where my fellow 80’s babies at! Long socks and leg warmers… I’m so into this look. How do we feel about it?

I’ll be rockin’ a side pony, parachute pants and French rolling my jeans too, watch me. Every trend makes it way back… except for eyebrows, when you over plucked in the 90’s sometimes they never came back. Whew I got lucky

To my 14 year old awkward self: you’re not growing any more, it’s okay. And your big lips (I was called fish lips) and curvy body is beautiful. Oh, and JLo is coming

Any thoughts to your younger self?

Sports bra: @alo
Leggings: @carbon38
Kicks: @puma
High pony & high socks: it me

#coachjess #tuesdaythoughts #80sbaby #kneehighsocks #theyreback

happy lesbian day my lovers. visibility is everyth

happy lesbian day my lovers. visibility is everything. representation is everything. empathy is everything.

I had a really meaningful conversation last night about how we present ourselves and people's assumptions of us based on those initial three seconds of setting eyes on us. some would be surprised that I'm in a relationship with @laceystonefitness but here we are. In love and I dgaf who disagrees because it's not their love to judge. No one’s love (or life) is for anyone else to judge *can I get an amen

I'd love it if we could stand up for one another, to value and hold space for one another. I'm a femme lesbian here to tell you that whoever you are, wherever you are, however you identify, whoever you love, you are valuable and you matter here. you are loved and you are enough. use your voice, stretch and take up space, you do you

and remember, if people don't like it, they can avert their eyes. or close them. that works too. but also remember, MOST people love LOVE so let's spread that ish thick like peanut buttah!

this love, this Pride, it’s every day 🏳️‍🌈

ps that’s @ayaravanda’s woohooing in the background, she’s also proud of our love alongside @tiffanymorgan who captured this sweet moment. s/o to late nights out on the town, full of laughter with the people you love, good food, good conversation and all the funs!

This chunky lil snuggle muffin of mine... I missed

This chunky lil snuggle muffin of mine... I missed #nationaldaughtersday but every day is a day to reminisce on those chubby cheeks, those wrist and knee rolls (iykyk) bc HOW ever do our babies make it out of this stage of that baby head smell without us eating them

Let's not pay attention to the 90's weird fugly couch, my letter J chola belt, and my boob pads. Those uncomfortable, oblong things were everywhere and never worked. Pay attention to how the days may feel long but the years move fast. Let the house be a mess, let 'em eat crap for dinner (bc hey, they're eating), and have that meltdown mama. Breathing helps, screen time helps (let's be honest), vino in the bathtub helps... take care of yourself too bc a happy mama is everything. You're everything

Love, a mama who also felt (and still feels) mom guilt and who just recently deboarded the hot mess express and is on the other side of things to tell you that you're doing it right however you're doing it <3

PS who else tried to clean their phone screen only to realize it’s my old timey photo that’s all creased n shiiii

#motherdaughter #mamalizama #teenmom #youvegotthis

Everything I’ve done in my life has been for thi

Everything I’ve done in my life has been for this girl right here… except the over-plucked brows and chola lipliner…it was the 90’s. My carbon copy who grew up with me and never let go of my hand even when I had no idea where I was leading us to or what the hell I was doing

They don’t tell you how to raise a baby they just make sure the car seat is properly installed before you leave the hospital, and you question everything you do and how it’s going to affect them, and you fight for the light every day and you do things you didn’t think you were strong enough to do, and then there you are. Exactly where you’re supposed to be

And here we are baby girl, 23 years later and you’re still my biggest motivation and supporter. I learned so much being your mama… like your brows will grow back and that swear words stick when you say them around your 3 year old

I leave for London next week and I hope I make you as proud as you make me ❤️

#motherdaughter

When Corrine was little I’d hide in my closet to

When Corrine was little I’d hide in my closet to eat my ice cream ALONE… or enjoy my Snickers or glass of wine without her asking for a bite, something just for me. Even though the mom guilt would some how settle in

and even though those little hands would make their way beneath the door to pry and ask what I was doing in there and when I’d let her in! No regrets, that ice cream was damn delicious 🙈

Mamas, what do you sneak away for and where do you sneak off to? Lucky for me, @laceystonefitness doesn’t want my ice cream… oh but if this were a cheeseburger it’d be a different story haha Who likes to bite off your snacks? And how big is their bite?! YOU CAN TELL ME ❣️ PS this flavor is bombaaa it’s called Crispy Trio… what’s your flavor???

Happy Father’s Day to mamas pulling double duty,

Happy Father’s Day to mamas pulling double duty, I see you and I know single parenting isn’t easy but you’re crushing it

Those baby Corriney hands and that leetle face of hers makes my heart explode. @joenation_ met her when she was 12 and I’m so grateful that she still has him to be there for her and they have the bond they do and that we have the friendship that we do

Being friends with an ex is possible and can be healthy and wonderful if there’s mutual respect there. And if you’re co-parenting, I know that’s not always easy but how incredible for the littles and the not so littles. You go you❤️

@jess_lizama

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